Talking with someone who’s new to us is really exciting. Others long to talk w/ each other every minute every second of the day.
Because of this, they forgot the real world in which they’re in. They tend to work with their minds, imagine happy things while talking w/ their online boy friends or online girl friends.

Unknowingly, they didnt even notice that their love ones are present. They plunged into their virtual world of happy lovers.
They imagine theirself kissing, hugging and other sex act that excite their minds and body.

They unknowingly suggested that their real relationship is no better than their current virtual love affairs.
Although they argue that their activity is just nothing but a mere chat, but they were so attached that they were’nt even noticed how it destroyed a long time good relationship.

Everyday they exchanges hi’s and hello’s . Lately they discover that it was wrong but too late because trust w/ their real lover was gone. Having an online affairs could be short term happiness. Aside from hurting the real person, online affairs wont last. But if this is what life’s all about for them… well let it be.

Everyone’s ideal life is different anyway.

The bigger picture is the real world while a limited scope lies within the virtual place. Everybody is expecting a happy life.

My suggestions on how to keep a real relationship while chatting online.
1. Do not talk about deep personal information to your online acquintances. It will just suggest that you need someone at this time.
2. If someone ask about your love life. Say you are happy and you want to keep it forever.
3. Dont let sex topic to be your main subject while chatting. Talk of different things to keep your chat going.
4. If your friend is offering sex topic w/ you (for female), it means you are not respected. You’re too cheap for the guys.
5. Ever wonder why all your friends wanted to sex chat w/ you? It doesnt mean you are sexy, it means you’re a playgirl. You’re our favourite.
6. Get a life, be respected and progressive. Your real relationship is worth saving.
7. Respect your real boyfriend or girl friend, they work hard for your relationship. They arent playing w/ you. unless you dont want a real lover. that’s a different thing.
8. Spend most of your time w/ your boyfriend or girl friend talking than chatting w/ sexy liars on the net.
9. Limitations. Have your limit.
10. Make use of your time online. If you want to research, there are plenty of informations online. If you want to make money legitimately while online then go ahead google it.

Aside from wasting time on online acquintances, it will just ruin a real good relationship.

Happy Surfing.